3 Signs That You Are Loving the Wrong Person

It is a huge truth that love is a very beautiful thing. This is no wonder late Teddy Pendergrass' song that has the line ' it's so good loving somebody...'  sold platinum all over the world when it hit the charts. There are an avalanche of folks who would do all they could to make sure that they loved that one person they have purported in their hearts to.

However, the truth yet remains that the hurt that goes with being in love can sometimes be a disastrous one. If you have found yourself badly hurt by that one person you thought you loved, then you might reckon with this. This is because being mere mortals there are times when you have gotten it really wrong in your love relationships that you wished you knew before hand or were a superior being who had all the powers to know all along that the person wasn't just the right person for you.

Did you know that there are tell tale signs that you could take a cue from in knowing if you are loving the wrong person? Those who have their fingers burnt in time past know that following these signs would help prevent you some great pains in future.

Are you ready for these signs? Well, here you go.

1. When You Have Butterflies in Your Tummy

Surprised why this is one of the signs? Well; do not be, as this is one of the most important signs that show you- especially ladies that you are with the wrong person. This is also known as the Red flag system. This danger sign might surface whenever you are with a particular person whom you think you love and there is always this feeling of butterflies in your tummy. Truth is that physiologists have revealed that this is only a red flag feeling trying to signal you that that person isn't the right person. It is a sign that you might be in danger of being emotionally hurt. Statistics have further gone to show that 80 percent of people, who claimed they had butterflies in their tummies when in a relationship, certainly did break up along the line, as real reasons as to why they weren't compatible came to show.

2. When You Ignore Your Intuitive Spirit

Intuition simply defined; has to do with your inner spirit communicating to you that something might not be right. However, more often than not this spirit might not explain to you why that particular thing isn't right, but gives you an affirmation that it just isn’t. Here is where some folks might miss it; instead of trying to accept hook, line and sinker that their spirit is right, they try to argue within themselves to come up with reasons why the person might be the right one.

3.  When You Do More Work

If you are in a relationship were you feel drained, then chances are that you are doing more of the emotional  work. Love is like a two way street. You and your partner have got to give your all; after all you both claim to be in this together, don't you?  So why should you be the one giving more time, energy, resources and what have you. No matter how busy your partner might be, there must be a balance.

There you have it. 3 signs that you are in a wrong relationship. It really pays to make hay while the sun shines. A broken courtship or relationship is far better than a broken marriage. Be wise and make a shift before you get badly hurt. Remember, that you can only find a blissful love relationship   when you ask God to show you the way and person.