If you have been starry-eyed
waiting for the right partner to surface, then you might want to agree with me
that it can sometimes be a very frustrating and daunting task. This is because
meeting that special person is one scenario we all want to behold without
delay. However, ironically there are times when you just must wait some more.
Before getting to the
real issue in this topic, it would be needful to know who the right partner
really is, as the terms have often been bastardized by all and sundry. Simply
said; the right partner does vary. To some it might mean that special person
who sweeps one off the feet, it could also mean saying good bye to that grouchy
and violent partner, and yet to others it could signify meeting that very focused
partner. However in summary, the right partner means meeting that person who is
perfect for you. Perfect to accommodate all your shortcomings and what have
you.
Nonetheless, it must be
worthy to note that you couldn’t possibly be waiting for the right person
without first being the right person yourself. Yes, this means that your period
of waiting simply indicates that you must work on the very important areas of
your life so that by the time you meet him or her, there is a synergy.
Here are 3 key
activities you must really engage in before meeting your partner.
1. Self Excursion
This has nothing to do
with a physical trip to an island or ocean. It has to do with some self
expedition. If you looked back at your past relationships you must be able to decipher
whether you were really self-developed or not. Truth is that you have got to
learn a whole lot about yourself before thinking to meet the right partner. The
reverse however is the case with some folks, as they think that first finding the
person would help them discover who they really are. They simply are putting
the cart before the horse. Knowing your own areas of strengths and weaknesses,
as well as learning your own value system would to a large extent help you in
filtering the wrong partners from the very right one.
2. Be At Your Best
Do not wait till you
meet her or him before you begin to be at the very zenith of your passion. In fact,
some folks especially ladies are too scared to take on some bold career steps
in life because they feel that might make men steer clear them. Truth is that
you meet that special person when you are at the very best of your career.
Those who run away from you because of your passion are truthfully not meant
for you. That special person strolls by when you are at the height of your passion.
3. Pray
The effect of prayer
cannot be over flogged; in fact, if you turned this article upside down then
you find that this becomes the first activity to engage in. The Christian
religion holds the marriage institution in high esteem, so that it says it is a
holy institution as well as a very honourable thing. For this reason, you must
be willing to engage in prayers about God helping you to locate the right
person, whilst the other two activities are also being simultaneously adhered
to.
Would these 3 activities really help me?
You bet it sure would,
as strictly adhering to these would really mean you are prepared to meet that special person who would be glad
because you are boldly bringing something reasonable to the table of
relationship.
Let the discussion
continue on twitter on @singlescafeng or on my facebook account; Joy Akwara
Nwokoro.Also feel free to reach me for relationship counseling, as well as to
book me to speak at any of your relationship programmes.
I would be glad to
serve.
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